How to Get What You Really Want (Part 1)

There's always going to be someone who seems smarter, richer, or funnier than us. So how do we avoid the endless cycle of comparison and competition?

Many people wonder if Christianity is true, but for more and more people, the most important question is, “Is it actually good?”

First-century Jesus followers were convinced the message of Christianity was good news of great joy for all people. So why has it become it so easy to walk away from?

Ingratitude stings. The tricky part is that ingratitude isn’t an active thing; rather, it is a lack of action. But unexpressed gratitude has the potential to leave devastating blows in relationships.

How do you get from where you are to where you wish you were? In this episode, Andy introduces an idea that can help you find your way.

All of life is connected. In this episode, Andy explains how to be wise with our time today in order to create a drama-free life in the future

Guardrails are everywhere. They don’t get much attention until somebody hits one and a life is saved. In Part 1, Andy Stanley discusses the need for personal guardrails to help direct and protect our lives.

Your friends will determine the quality and direction of your life. Chances are, your biggest regrets involved friends. In Part 2 of Guardrails, Andy Stanley offers several guardrails to keep your friendships from leading you into danger.

We live in a culture where we tend to flirt with the guardrails instead of fleeing from them. In Part 3 of Guardrails, Andy Stanley unpacks some practical guidelines for married and single people .

Setting up guardrails in your life is easier said than done. In Part 4 of Guardrails, see how Andy and Sandra Stanley ahve intenionally established guardrails in their lives. These guardrails have protected them relationally, financially, professionally, and more.

Safeguarding your money. What kinds of guardrails do you need in order to protect yourself in the area of your finances? In Part 5 of Guardrails, Andy reveals a simple 3-part plan to establish personal guardrails that will protect you from financial disaster.

We live with a tension between our values and our desire for immediate gratification. So why bother having guardrails when they feel like barriers to getting something that seems good? In Part 6 of Guardrails, Andy shares a story that will encourage you to establish guardrails now and for all time.

There is a conflict that reflects a deep divide in today's American culture - a conflict that, if resolved, could pave the way for our nation to come together and successfully address the issues that fill the airways.

There is a conflict that reflects a deep divide in today's American culture - a conflict that, if resolved, could pave the way for our nation to come together and successfully address the issues that fill the airways.

In this four part session you will learn how every decision and its outcomes become a permanent part of your story, what to do when you feel the need to pause before taking action, and how to make more of this life by making sound decisions.

In this four part session you will learn how every decision and its outcomes become a permanent part of your story, what to do when you feel the need to pause before taking action, and how to make more of this life by making sound decisions.

In this four part session you will learn how every decision and its outcomes become a permanent part of your story, what to do when you feel the need to pause before taking action, and how to make more of this life by making sound decisions.

In this four part session you will learn how every decision and its outcomes become a permanent part of your story, what to do when you feel the need to pause before taking action, and how to make more of this life by making sound decisions.

How can a nation with so much wealth have a financial crisis? No matter who you ask - Republican or Democrat - the other side has caused our nation's problems. Listen as Andy reminds us what the Bible says about pointing fingers.

Should our nation's recovery take its cue from 12-step recovery programs? In this message, Andy introduces us to a step we should all take - a step that requires a good, long look in the mirror.

What should we expect from the private behavior of our public figures? And should a candidate's integrity affect our votes? Listen as Andy introduces us to an Old Testament leader who demonstrated one important qualification we should demand of our leaders today.

In God We Trust. Or do we? It's our national motto. But is it still true? In this message, Andy challenges the nation to make an important change in our rhetoric.

Somewhere along the way, our national attitude about debt changed. In fact, it did a 180°. In this message, Andy reminds us of the financial wisdom that has stood the test of time.

How would Jesus respond to our entitlement questions? What do I deserve? What should you get? What's fair? In this message, Andy points out that Jesus has a better question.

When I meet the right person, everything will be all right. This way of thinking creates trouble in our dating lives and sets us up for trouble in marriage. In this message, Andy challenges us to ask ourselves Am I the person the person I'm looking for is looking for? And he previews God's list of behaviors that will lead to success in dating and marriage.

You can say, "I do." But can you follow through? A promise - even a promise as big as a wedding vow - doesn't mean anything without preparation to back it up. In this message, Andy has a "to do" list that will prepare you to one day say "I do" and mean it.

In Letters To The Next President, Andy Stanley extracts three extraordinary leadership principles from the stories of three ancient political leaders: a Babylonian king, a Judean governor, and an Egyptian pharaoh. As you listen, you will discover that these leadership lessons are not just applicable to those who hold public office, but to leaders everywhere. Whether your leadership context is home, business, team, or classroom, these three principles will help you maximize your leadership potential.

In Letters To The Next President, Andy Stanley extracts three extraordinary leadership principles from the stories of three ancient political leaders: a Babylonian king, a Judean governor, and an Egyptian pharaoh. As you listen, you will discover that these leadership lessons are not just applicable to those who hold public office, but to leaders everywhere. Whether your leadership context is home, business, team, or classroom, these three principles will help you maximize your leadership potential.

In Letters To The Next President, Andy Stanley extracts three extraordinary leadership principles from the stories of three ancient political leaders: a Babylonian king, a Judean governor, and an Egyptian pharaoh. As you listen, you will discover that these leadership lessons are not just applicable to those who hold public office, but to leaders everywhere. Whether your leadership context is home, business, team, or classroom, these three principles will help you maximize your leadership potential.

Where does it come from? We know it's there. Irresponsibility runs rampant, and what does it even mean to be responsible? Deep down, we all know that irresponsibility creates conflict. If that is really something we can change, shouldn't we? Let the blames begin.

You probably haven't thought about the Archimedes Principle in years, but it's still true. Basically, it explains the buoyancy of water. When leveraged, ships float. When ignored, they sink. The same holds true with the nature of responsibility. If we leverage it, the outcome is a gift. If we ignore it, the outcome seems like a punishment. So how do we make the most of responsibility?

"Let me pray about it" has somehow become our "get out of responsibility free" card. When faced with difficult, on-your-feet situations, we make excuses that sound prayerful and honest. But what if the time for prayer passes and you're still not moving? What if action is what's needed and you're still waiting? What if someone told you, "Don't just kneel there, do something!"? It's time for some action. This is no time to pray.

Life isn't fair. When we draw the short straw, were quick to point that out. We're quick to come up with excuses and deny the responsibilities we've been given, whether we've received much in life or very little. But the truth is, it's not about how unfair life is, it's really about how we respond. We don't get to choose what opportunities come our way, but we do get to choose our responses. Your response ability is up to you.

Do you remember as a child what it was like enduring those days before Christmas? It was that anticipation that made Christmas, Christmas. The first Christmas was no different. Listen and learn why.

Do you know how much God loves you? Have you found your place in his story? In this message, Andy explains what God did to bring you into his family and to make his story your story.

The ingredients in the Christmas story seem kind of random: an order from Caesar, a pregnant virgin, an angelic announcement, three wise men, and no room at the inn. Some of the circumstances you may be dealing with this year aren’t exactly what you’d want in your story either. In this message, Andy challenges us to respond to the seemingly random curve balls in our lives the same way Mary reacted to the curve ball thrown at her.

Christmas is complicated enough. There are presents to pick, parking spots to find, and family dynamics to navigate. But the story of Christmas shouldn't be complicated. In this message, Andy Stanley unpacks the bottom line of Christmas. And it's a bottom line that is truly "good news."

Are you financially balanced? Do you know where your money goes each month? Do you and your spouse argue about money? Does your month last longer than your money? If your answer to any of these questions is yes, you may be financially unbalanced. In this series, Andy reveals the steps you need to take to achieve the freedom and contentment that comes with being financially balanced.

What is your primary objective when it comes to your personal finances? Supporting a family? Saving as much as possible? Financial freedom? Andy explores what will bring you the most peace. It just might surprise you.

Auto leases, credit cards, student loans, and second mortgages take our money, our attention, and our freedom. In this message, Andy shares how to handle personal debt and takes a hard look at making the necessary corrections to get to where we need to be.

Do you want less anxiety in the arena of your finances? Of course you do. But our culture teaches that your value is based on the accumulation of stuff. The more you amass before you die, the more successful it appears your life has been. Andy presents a different perspective—one that will keep you from buying into our culture’s lies.

Do you struggle with discontentment? If you do, there's a reason. In this message, Andy explains why your appetite for more never gets satisfied. Once you understand that and you apply the principles Andy presents, you'll be able to find the contentment you desire.

When it comes to spending, we often put ourselves first. This can wreak havoc on our personal finances. In the last of this 6-part series, Andy explains why it is in your best interest to re-prioritize your money in a way that will bring you the freedom and peace you desire.

For many, the Christmas season is complicated. But no matter your circumstances, Christmas can be a reminder of light overcoming darkness.

It's never been easier to fall in love and it's never been harder to stay in love. Is it even possible for two people to be happy together—forever? In this message, Andy reveals a simple, yet powerful principle.

Do you remember what it felt like to fall in love? How you would do anything for that person? What happens to those feelings? Falling in love comes naturally. But staying in love requires a plan. In this message, Andy shares a blueprint for maintaining, and even growing, the love in your marriage.

In this episode, Andy shares the Christmas story and the potential for making it personal.

What happens after "I do”? How could the person to whom a woman gave her deepest vow become the person she despises most? How could the beautiful woman a man couldn't stay away from become the person he can't stand to be around? In this message, Andy exposes the real reason we fall out of love.

In this episode, Andy gives advice on the topics of debt, sexual choices, and self-improvement.

What if it were possible not to fear? In this episode, Andy explains how not to be afraid even when there's something to be afraid of.

What's different about people who stay in love? What’s their secret, their magic formula? How do they bridge the gap between expectations and reality? Watch this message to find out.

History is full of powerful kings who refused to listen to a higher power. They repeatedly chose to put their desires first. In this message, Andy Stanley tells the story of King Zedekiah and explains the tough, but necessary lesson we can learn from his life.

The future is uncertain and sometimes scary. In this episode, Andy explains how to develop a habit of not worrying.

Doubt is normal, but it doesn't have to overwhelm you. In this episode, Andy introduces a question that can help you put doubt in its place.

Prayer is just talking to God, right? What if prayer is more than just talking? In this message, Andy Stanley unpacks a life-changing answer to the request, "Lord, teach us to pray."

The Easter story hinged on two unlikely characters—Nick and Joe. In this message, Andy tells the story of Nick and Joe’s boldness in the face of great personal risk. The Easter story might never have made it out of the first century without them!

In this episode, Andy is interviewed on the topics of love, sex, and dating.

Have you ever been hurt by someone who calls himself a “Christian”? “Christian” is a brand that can have a good, bad, attractive, or repelling connotation. It’s a loaded label no matter whom you ask. But where did the word come from? And did it come with instructions? In this message, Andy reexamines the meaning of “Christian.” The meaning may surprise you.

Should I stay or go? Buy it or not? In this episode, Andy Stanley introduces a question that makes the answers to other questions easy.

The words used to describe Christians today often bear no resemblance to the one word Jesus wanted his followers to be known for. In this message, Andy challenges us to change the name and reputation of Christianity by becoming a group of followers characterized by that one word.

Do you ever wonder how Christianity grew? Without intending to, Christianity toppled the Roman Empire. And it did so without raising a sword. What was the secret of the early church’s influence? In this message, Andy Stanley reveals the secret—and a lesson for us in how we act toward others.

Life is full of ups and downs and everyone struggles sometimes. But do you think you could still be influential even in the struggle? You may be surprised to find that you have more influence than you thought.

Jesus loved everyone. He ate with tax collectors and was kind to adulterers. His disciples struggled and we still struggle today to understand his extraordinary love. In this message, Andy Stanley unwraps the two ingredients that made Jesus’ love revolutionary—the secret of the most irresistible message ever delivered.

Do you believe that you have to earn forgiveness? In this message, Andy recounts one of the most famous parables which has a message for all of us. And it's a message that will give us lots of reasons to celebrate.

Looking for loopholes comes naturally. Whether it's eating all of our vegetables or being home by curfew, no one has to teach us that there is a difference between the letter of the law and the spirit of the law. In this message, Andy Stanley gives us a question to ask ourselves when we'd rather look for the loopholes than live as God intends.

The person you are has been shaped by those who have loved you and also by those who have hurt you. Maybe it was your mom or your dad or your coach or a teacher. In this message, Andy Stanley reminds us that the way we treat one another has a lasting impact.

Guardrails are everywhere. They don’t get much attention until somebody hits one and a life is saved. In Part 1 of this series, Andy Stanley discusses the need for personal guardrails to help direct and protect our lives.

We live in a culture that tends to flirt with the guardrails instead of fleeing from them. In Part 3 of Guardrails, Andy Stanley unpacks some practical guidelines for married and single people to help them avoid peril.

Why is it so easy to make decisions that hurt us in the long run? In this episode, Andy explains that it has to do with the distinction between pleasure and happiness.

It's easy to make life all about ourselves. In this episode, Andy explains why life is much better when it's not all about you.

Americans are migrating away from religion at an unprecedented rate; Christianity in particular. Once upon a time Americans believed religion offered solutions. Today, religion is viewed by many as the problem.

Do you have religious doubts? When your prayers go unanswered, do you wonder if God exists? Does science make God seem unnecessary? Before you abandon your faith, consider this: What if the god you’re walking away from never existed to begin with?

Jesus loves me, this I know. For the Bible tells me so. Should we really believe something just because the bible tells us so? Andy explains in this episode.

Are you caught up in doubt because you’ve been trying to find peace with your understanding of God? If the idea of God has lost its appeal, in this episode Andy explains that it could be because you’ve mixed him up with a gaggle of gods that don’t exist.

We all want to rid the world of injustice. But we can only recognize injustice if we know what justice is to begin with. We don’t always agree about what is just. So, who gets to define justice? We'll talk about it in this latest episode.

The idea of autonomy is attractive. One of the biggest barriers to belief in God is that we don't want to need anyone. But what if the idea of autonomy is really the illusion of autonomy?

Sometimes we can't enjoy anything because we're trying to do everything. In this episode, Andy explains the value of limiting what you do with your limited time.

Every decision you make becomes a permanent part of the story of your life. In this episode, Andy explains how to make your story one you want to tell.

Have you ever needed to make a big decision quickly? In this episode, Andy reveals a question that can bring clarity to the options you're considering

Do you ever wonder if there's more to life than it seems? In this episode, Andy explains how life is better when lived for a greater purpose.

Your job matters. The people you work with matter. What you do matters. In this episode, Andy looks at how to go the extra mile and make a difference in the marketplace.

You can't blame your way into a better future. In this episode, Andy explains how to own your part of your past so it doesn't own you.

What is it that you want for yourself? Is it a what? Is it a who? Maybe it’s a state of mind. Are you sure it’s what you really want? In this episode, Andy helps us figure out our answers to those questions.

We’ll never get what we really want until we discover what is most valuable. But what if the road to discovering what’s valuable doesn’t come naturally?

What do you really want? We’ll never get what we really want until we discover what is most valuable. In this episode, Andy helps us figure out what it is that we ultimately value.

What we naturally want is often in conflict with what we ultimately value. So, how do we put aside those natural wants and pursue what we ultimately value?

Life is full of change. Transitions can be both exciting and stressful. That’s because we can’t see into the future to see what comes next. But what if there was a way to prepare? What if we could do something now to influence where we end up?

Sometimes you know what’s coming next—a graduation, a wedding, a new baby, a new job, or retirement. But there’s no correlation between knowing what’s next and being prepared for what’s next. In this episode, Andy explains how to prepare for the season ahead.

While it’s impossible to be fearless, we can all fear less. In this episode, Andy explains some practical ways we can all fear less.

We tend to measure generosity by random acts of giving. In this episode, Andy makes a case for generosity as a lifestyle.

We all worry about money. In this episode, Andy explains a simple shift in perspective that can free you from financial worries.

Generosity requires a plan. In this episode, Andy explains two gauges that will help you decide where and how much to give.

In this episode, Andy explains that there's a light that can cut through doubt, anger, shame, and disappointment with God.

The new year is all about making ourselves better people. In this episode, Andy suggests becoming a better person by doing something to make the world a better place.

If you want to become a better person, do something this year to make the world a better place. In this episode, Andy discusses how to determine what that something should be.

Making the world a better place means giving up time, money, or opportunities. But what if that's the only way to live a life of purpose and meaning?

A hero saves the day, and sometimes a hero saves the planet. That makes heroism seem inaccessible to most of us. But with a single question, we can access our heroic potential.

Something we all have in common is making messes of our lives at one time or another. In this episode, Andy reveals the silver lining of this fact.

In this episode, Andy explains how the messes we make of our lives can bring us closer to God.

It's a misconception that Christianity is about staying out of trouble. In this episode, Andy discusses the flaw in this belief.

The messes in our lives are rarely solved with quick, simple fixes. In this episode, Andy introduces a better approach.

A great marriage doesn’t happen by accident. It requires preparation, care and regular maintenance. But sometimes we don’t want to make the effort. As long as everything seems fine, do we really need to talk about it?

In Letters To The Next President, Andy Stanley extracts three extraordinary leadership principles from the stories of three ancient political leaders: a Babylonian king, a Judean governor, and an Egyptian pharaoh. As you listen, you will discover that these leadership lessons are not just applicable to those who hold public office, but to leaders everywhere. Whether your leadership context is home, business, team, or classroom, these three principles will help you maximize your leadership potential.

In Letters To The Next President, Andy Stanley extracts three extraordinary leadership principles from the stories of three ancient political leaders: a Babylonian king, a Judean governor, and an Egyptian pharaoh. As you listen, you will discover that these leadership lessons are not just applicable to those who hold public office, but to leaders everywhere. Whether your leadership context is home, business, team, or classroom, these three principles will help you maximize your leadership potential.

When we choose to commit to a marriage, we do so with hopes, dreams, and desires. But these often turn into expectations that you look to your partner to fulfill. Your relationship becomes marked by the belief that your spouse owes you something. Sound familiar? In this episode, Andy explains how to avoid this cycle.

As long as you think your spouse owes you, your marriage will be all about keeping score. That destroys intimacy. It destroys love. But what are we supposed to do about our hopes, dreams, and desires?

In Letters To The Next President, Andy Stanley extracts three extraordinary leadership principles from the stories of three ancient political leaders: a Babylonian king, a Judean governor, and an Egyptian pharaoh. As you listen, you will discover that these leadership lessons are not just applicable to those who hold public office, but to leaders everywhere. Whether your leadership context is home, business, team, or classroom, these three principles will help you maximize your leadership potential.

When I meet the right person, everything will be all right. This way of thinking creates trouble in our dating lives and sets us up for trouble in marriage. In this message, Andy challenges us to ask ourselves Am I the person the person I'm looking for is looking for? And he previews God's list of behaviors that will lead to success in dating and marriage.

Happy couples decide they owe each other everything but are owed nothing in return. To get there requires effort. Every married person makes a choice every day, whether they realize it or not. In this episode, Andy explains how happy couples make the better choice.

Humble shepherd. Giant-slayer. Gifted poet. Mighty warrior. Flawed man. Legendary leader. For the next four weeks, we're talking about David—one of history's most famous kings. But he wasn't great because of his reputation or military prowess. He was great because of where he'd learned to place his hope.

Are the Bible's teachings about women relevant? In this message, Andy explains that Jesus' teachings about honoring women were extremely counter-cultural in the first century. They remain so today. So Christian men especially need to transform their thinking. And there are two simple steps to start with.

Culture convinces us - and sometimes we convince ourselves - that sex is only physical. But if that is true, why is the pain of sexual sin so deep? Because sex is not just physical. It was designed by God to be so much more. In this message, Andy addresses common myths about sex outside of marriage and has two specific challenges going forward.

You can say, "I do." But can you follow through? A promise - even a promise as big as a wedding vow - doesn't mean anything without preparation to back it up. In this message, Andy has a "to do" list that will prepare you to one day say "I do" and mean it.

There's no win in comparison

Plans are great. Reality is greater. Reality wins. Things don’t always go as planned. Some dreams don’t come true. So what do you do when you discover your dream can’t come true?

We all dream of a trouble-free life made possible by something. In this episode, Andy asks the question of what really makes people happy.

Take your cue about you from the One who made you, loves you, and redeemed you.

Sometimes it seems that happiness and holiness are mutually exclusive. In this episode, Andy explains why the opposite is true.

What are you going to do with what God has entrusted to you?

Jesus taught and pointed toward an ideal, yet refused to condemn those who fell short

If your goal is happiness, no amount of money alone will ever be enough. In this episode, Andy explains how the way you view money can actually help you find peace.

Why is it so easy to make decisions that hurt us in the long run? In this episode, Andy explains that it has to do with the distinction between pleasure and happiness.

What can I do to help?

It's easy to make life all about ourselves. In this episode, Andy explains why life is much better when it's not all about you.

We all have limited resources. In this episode, Andy explains that how we see the world affects how we use our money.

How does God view time? In this episode, Andy argues that if we saw time how God does, it might affect the way we use our own.

Actions do'nt merely speak louder than words, sometimes they echo into the next generation

What do you do when your life falls apart? In this episode, Andy explains how to pick up the pieces.

One good thing about being part of something big is that we can make a big difference. In this message, Andy Stanley gives you a chance to help change the world.

You can't blame your way into a better future. In this episode, Andy explains how to own your part of your past so it doesn't own you.

Most of us don't feel rich. But if you make over $48,000 per year, you're in the top 1% in the world. In this message, Andy Stanley asks you to rethink how rich you really are.

There's plenty of advice out there about how to get rich. In this message, Andy Stanley tells us how to be rich.

Sometimes we look at our pasts and our decisions don't even make sense to us. In this episode, Andy explains how to transform your thinking.

There's a big difference between owning things and being owned by things. In this message, Andy Stanley tells you how to be the owner, without being owned.

How do you get past the stuff other people have done to turn your life upside down? In this episode, Andy explains how to release the past.

We all have bad habits we wish we could break and weaknesses we wish we were stronger than. In this episode, Andy Stanley explains that you can't solve a problem if you don't know what it is.

We try to do the right thing, but we keep messing up in the same ways we always have. In this episode, Andy gives us the fix for this problem we all have.

Life is full of change. Transitions can be both exciting and stressful. That’s because we can’t see into the future to see what comes next. But what if there was a way to prepare? What if we could do something now to influence where we end up?

We all mess up, but we don't have to let our bad habits rule us. In this episode, Andy gives us three things to do the next time we are tempted to fall back into destructive habits.

All religions point to three things: you ought to...you don't...you're toast. Religion is all about following the rules. In this episode, Andy explains that Jesus had something different in mind.

“Might makes right” is the default setting for the world. Those with wealth and power write the rules, and they usually write them to favor themselves. But someone came to turn this paradigm upside down.

People who use their religion to justify the mistreatment of others are not only on the wrong side of history—they’re on the wrong side of God.

Learn the most powerful, transformational, and inspirational leadership principle on the planet. You can lead without it, but you won’t be a leader worth following unless you embrace it.

When it comes to our finances, it’s easy to cross the line into places of financial risk. In this episode, we learn how to establish guardrails that protect us from greed.

An unguarded heart can overpower our best intentions. In this episode, we learn how to establish guardrails that protect our hearts.

Americans are migrating away from religion at an unprecedented rate; Christianity in particular. Once upon a time Americans believed religion offered solutions. Today, religion is viewed by many as the problem.

Do you have religious doubts? When your prayers go unanswered, do you wonder if God exists? Does science make God seem unnecessary? Before you abandon your faith, consider this: What if the god you’re walking away from never existed to begin with?

Jesus loves me, this I know. For the Bible tells me so. Should we really believe something just because the bible tells us so? Andy explains in this episode.

Are you caught up in doubt because you’ve been trying to find peace with your understanding of God? If the idea of God has lost its appeal, in this episode Andy explains that it oculd be because you’ve mixed him up with a gaggle of gods don’t exist.

We all want to rid the world of injustice. But we can only recognize injustice if we know what justice is to begin with. We don’t always agree about what is just. So, who gets to define justice? We'll talk about it in this latest episode.

The idea of autonomy is attractive. One of the biggest barriers to belief in God is that we don't want to need anyone. But what if the idea of autonomy is really the illusion of autonomy?

We live in a culture that tells us newer and shinier is better. So, what do you do when you're no longer content with what you wear, drive, or live in?

Leaders are everywhere—in government, in the community, at the office, and in our homes. But the ones worth following are the ones who first learn to lead themselves well.

What do we do with the big mysteries in life—the mysteries that won't resolve no matter how much we explore them? What do you do with your unanswered questions?

We all have a framework that helps us make sense out of life. It helps us make decisions that make sense. But is there a framework that makes sense out of faith?

We all wonder. But what do we do when wonder leads to wander, and we've wandered far from the option of a personal faith? What if there's a version of faith that actually makes sense?

In this episode, Andy gives advice on the topics of debt, sexual choices, and self-improvement.

All of life is connected. In this episode, Andy explains how to be wise with our time now in order to create a drama-free life in the future.

We’ll never get what we really want until we discover what we value. In a world of short-term desires, how do we focus on what we care about the most?

If you could choose, how would you want people to describe you? In this episode, Andy explains how your response to this question can help you uncover what you really value.

What we naturally want is often in conflict with what we ultimately value. So, how do we put aside our natural wants to pursue what we ultimately value?

We all want to be right, especially in the heat of an argument. But instead of settling for being right, what if we tried to make things right?

A great marriage requires preparation, care, and regular maintenance, but sometimes we don’t want to make the effort. As long as everything seems fine, do we really need to talk about it?

In every marriage both people have hopes, dreams, and desires for the relationship. But how do we keep them from turning into expectations for each other to fulfill?

As long as you think your partner owes you, your marriage will be all about keeping score. What do we do with the unfulfilled hopes, dreams, and desires we have for the relationship?

Want to know the secret to a happy marriage? It’s a choice that happy couples don't always know they're making, but it makes all the difference.

If a hero has superpowers and saves the planet, none of us are qualified for the job. Maybe we need to rethink what it means to be a hero.

The way we live our lives doesn’t always line up with the type of future we have in mind. When we find ourselves dissatisfied with the path we’re on, will we choose to change course? And do we really have to give up something to do so?

If you’ve ever gotten lost, you know you can’t always rely on yourself to get where you want to go. That’s why we all follow someone or something we trust. So, who do you trust?

The appeal of money, acceptance, or security can lower our defenses and lead us away from the path we want to be on. So, what do we do when we realize we’ve chosen what’s appealing instead of what’s ultimately satisfying?

We’ve all made a mess, been a mess, or experienced a mess. But could our messiness be just the thing that brings us closer to everyone in our lives?

When we find ourselves in a mess, we usually look for a quick fix and an easy way out. But God invites us to something much better—something that has the potential to improve every aspect of our lives.

Many people believe Christianity is all about staying out of trouble. But a life following Jesus is not about avoiding something. It’s about becoming something.

The messes in our lives can be, well . . . messy. And if we’re not careful, they can become even messier. So, how do we make choices that lead us forward instead of backward?

How we manage our money says a lot about what and who are important to us. But would our perspectives change for the better if we viewed money the way God views it?

Your time is your life. So, what’s the purpose of it all?

Our freedom gives us rights, but with rights comes responsibility. So how do we use our freedom well?

Payback. It’s always tempting. But does it really solve anything? Maybe there’s a better way.

Leading others can lead to some of our biggest challenges. So, how do we lead well when we are given authority and power?

The story of how the world got the Bible begins with a single event—an event so extraordinary it was worth writing about.

The backstory of the Bible gives us important context for the stories in it. In this episode, Andy explores the radical worldview introduced “in the beginning.”

The Old Testament is the gritty, epic history of the people of Israel. But even broader than that, it’s the story of God preparing the world for a Savior.

The Bible did not create Christianity. That means peace with God is possible even when we don’t have peace with everything in the Bible.

We all want to win. But each of us defines winning differently. So, what’s your win?

When left unchecked, our emotions have the potential to control us. So, how do we silence the voices that fight for our attention?

We all have a past, but how do we move forward when the weight of our pasts impacts our ability to live in the present?

There will always be someone who seems smarter, richer, or cooler. So how do we keep discontentment and comparison from stealing the life that’s right in front of us?

Anger shows up when we’re not getting what we want. But would it lose its grip if we looked beyond the things we want—or even deserve?

Living with too much fear can cause us to become self-absorbed, distracted, and overly protective. So how do we keep fear from controlling what we say and do?

Sometimes the people closest to us are the ones who see the mistakes we’re about to make—mistakes that could be avoided if only they said something. So how do we speak up when there’s something worth saying?

Our friends influence the direction of our lives. So what do we do when they’re leading us somewhere we don’t want to end up?

In romantic relationships, we all want to avoid unnecessary heartbreak. So how do we protect our most important relationships when we find ourselves veering into dangerous territory?

Do you have money or does money have you?

Let’s face it: some people can rub us the wrong way. But would we see them differently if we first took a look at ourselves?

We’re all grateful for someone, but do they know how we feel about them? Expressing gratitude might be more important than you think.

What are you holding on to that’s holding you back? Could this be the year you finally let it go?

“What was I thinking?” We’ve all asked ourselves that question at some point. So, how do we avoid making decisions that become regrets?

We all make resolutions. We all break resolutions. Something in each of our lives deserves our attention—a habit, a relationship, a debt. In this message, Andy Stanley gives us the key to finally tackling our "one thing."

Every decision we make becomes a permanent part of the story of our lives. But how do we keep that in mind when our emotions threaten to get the best of us?

We all face decisions in life that leave us feeling a bit uneasy. So, how do we make the right decision when what we’re considering feels wrong?

Good decisions lead to fewer regrets in life. But could embracing a greater purpose change the way we approach every decision?

When dating, it’s easy to believe that finding the right person and saying the right vows will solve everything. Maybe it’s time we debunk those myths.

The Bible is not the foundation of the Christian faith. In this episode, Andy argues that it's better than that.

The idea of finding love is often more exciting than actually preparing for it. But could our preparation be the very thing that helps us win the relationship we’ve always wanted?

Countless love stories and fairy tales focus on people finding love and living happily ever after. But how do we navigate relationships in the real world?

Dating is complicated. But does it really have to be?

"The longer you live, the more you have to give. Invest your time in those coming along behind. The value of your life is determined by how much of it you give away. (what are you going to do with the treausre that is you) what you will value the most are the lives you have shaped"

When it comes to relationships, how do we make sure we’re learning from our past mistakes instead of repeating them?

We all have hopes and dreams, but what are we supposed to do when our hearts are broken and it seems like our dreams can’t come true?

We all end up somewhere in life. Why not end up somewhere on purpose?

There's always going to be someone who seems smarter, richer, or funnier than us. So how do we avoid the endless cycle of comparison and competition?

Words have power. The words spoken about you and to you have shaped the person you are today. So, how do you use this power for good?

When life offers no good options and no perfect answers, what are you left with? And more importantly, how do you move forward?

Along the road of life, we all pick up some baggage. But how do you keep the ghosts of your past from showing up in your future?

What do you want for yourself? Is it a what? Is it a who? And are you sure it’s what you really want?

Perhaps nothing characterized the life of Jesus more than his pursuit of people whose lives and lifestyles did not look like his. If we fail to listen to people who don't experience the world the way we do, we will never bear their burden.

In a world characterized by short-term desires, how do we prioritize what we care about most?

Once upon a time, Americans believed religion offered solutions. Today, many believe religion is the problem. In the twenty-first century, do we really need God?

What if the God you walked away from never existed to begin with?

If we’ve always assumed God is something he’s not, how can we know who he really is?

We all want to rid the world of injustice. But who gets to define what’s just?

We all want to be the masters of our own destinies. But what if autonomy is an illusion?

Is it possible to disagree with someone politically and yet love them unconditionally?

Churches and faith communities aren’t immune to political divisiveness. So how, and why, should Christians from both sides of the aisle pursue unity?

The unity and diversity of first-century Jesus followers shocked and intrigued the ancient world. How can modern-day Christians follow their lead?

When you find yourself in a situation that seems hopeless, it’s easy to become angry, resentful, or jealous. How do you find the strength to move forward?

What’s the secret to being happy no matter your circumstances?

What do you do when life feels out of control? Is there a way to discover contentment in your most difficult circumstances?

Now, more than ever, the world needs leaders. How do you lead the way forward when you've entered uncharted territory?

The people who have the most influence in our lives often have little to no official authority over us. Yet when they speak, we listen. When they lead, we follow. What do they have that sets them apart? And how can we leverage it in our leadership?

Whether you’re a leader in the boardroom or the living room, people look to you for certainty. But when that’s no longer an option, you can still offer them the next best thing.

During times of uncertainty and disruption, the people around us need to know we care. How do we lead with empathy and compassion?

Leaders are everywhere—in government, in the community, at the office, and in our homes. But the ones worth following are those who first learn to lead themselves well.

Life is full of change. When you’re faced with a transition in life, how do you prepare for what’s next?

Sometimes you know what’s coming next—a graduation, a new job, a wedding, a new baby, or a retirement. But even when you know what’s next, how do you make sure you’re prepared for what’s next?

Newer and shinier can seem better, but what do you do when you're no longer content with what you wear, what you drive, or where you live?

Many people wonder if Christianity is true, but for more and more people, the most important question is, “Is it actually good?”

First-century Jesus followers were convinced the message of Christianity was good news of great joy for all people. So why has it become it so easy to walk away from?

We all want to win, but each of us defines winning differently. How do you define success?

When everything is important, nothing is important. What’s the one thing in your life that deserves your attention the most?

What are you holding on to that’s holding you back? Could this be the year you finally let it go?

Have you ever been your own worst enemy? Most of us have. Avoiding that scenario begins when we first pay attention to our own red flags.

We can talk ourselves into anything. Our internal narratives justify our beliefs as well as our actions. But when those narratives aren’t true, how do we replace them?

You want what you want. But what happens when doing what you want leads precisely where you didn’t want to be?

For many men, success means autonomy—the freedom to do what you want when you want. But what if that’s not as good as it seems?

We all have drama in our lives. Most of us want less of it. So where do we start?

Along the road of life, we all pick up some baggage. But how do you keep the ghosts of your past from showing up in your future?

Not many people would say that money is the meaning of life. So how do you avoid making money your top priority?

A hero saves the day, and sometimes a hero saves the planet. That makes heroism seem inaccessible to most of us. But with a single question, we can access our heroic potential.

No one wants to be mastered by anything, but the question remains: Do you have money, or does money have you?

Your money talks—whether you have a little or a lot. What would it say about you?

A great marriage doesn’t happen by accident. Happy couples know that the secret lies in addressing the hopes, dreams, and desires of both people.

In every marriage, both people have hopes, dreams, and desires for the relationship. But how do you keep them from turning into expectations for each other to fulfill?

As long as you think your partner owes you something, your marriage will be all about keeping score. How do you prevent your relationship from devolving into transactions and negotiations?

Want to know the secret to a happy marriage? It’s a choice happy couples don't always know they're making, but it makes all the difference.

Most parents want what’s best for their children, but sometimes it comes at the expense of their children. So what’s the secret to great parenting?

When left unchecked, our emotions have the potential to control us. How do we silence the voices that fight for our attention?

How do you move forward when the weight of your past impacts your ability to live in the present?

There will always be someone who seems smarter, richer, or cooler. So how do you keep discontentment and comparison from stealing the life that’s right in front of you?

Anger shows up when you’re not getting what you want. But would it lose its grip if you looked beyond the things you want—or even deserve?

Living with too much fear can cause you to become self-absorbed, distracted, and overly protective. How do you keep fear from controlling what you say and do?

Sometimes the people closest to us are the ones who see the mistakes we’re about to make. How do you speak up when there’s something worth saying?

We all place our hope in what, or who, we depend on the most. But what do you do when you’re left disappointed? One of history’s most famous kings offers a way to move forward.

Payback. It’s always tempting, but does it really solve anything? Maybe there’s a better way.

Leading others can lead to some of your biggest challenges. So how do you lead well when you’re given authority and power?

Life rarely goes as planned. So what do you do when you discover your dreams and plans for the future can’t—or won’t—come true?

Friends influence the direction of your life, but what do you do when they’re leading you somewhere you don’t want to end up?

In romantic relationships, we all want to avoid unnecessary heartbreak, but what do you do when you begin veering into dangerous territory?

Do you have money, or does money have you?

If not kept in check, our emotions can get the best of us and eventually hurt the people closest to us. So how do you minimize the negative effects of guilt, anger, greed, and jealousy?

We all want to be right, especially in the heat of an argument. But instead of settling for being right, what if we made things right?

With just a few words, you can build someone up or tear them down. How do you keep that in mind when holding your tongue is the last thing you want to do?

Words have power. The words spoken about you and to you have shaped the person you are today. How do you use the power of words for good?

What goes around often comes around. When you find yourself in a position of power over someone who has hurt you, how will you respond?

The story of how the world got the Bible begins with a single event—an event so extraordinary it was worth writing about.

The backstory of the Bible gives us important context for the stories in it. In this episode, Andy explores the radical worldview introduced “in the beginning.”

The Old Testament is the gritty, epic history of the people of Israel, but even broader than that, it’s the story of God preparing the world for a Savior.

The Bible did not create Christianity. Consequently, peace with God is possible even when you can’t find peace with everything in the Bible.

When we look back on regretful situations, we tend to rework the narratives in our minds to justify our decisions. This natural progression of internal thinking has made the easiest person to deceive the person in the mirror. So how can we avoid making decisions that lead to regret?

When everything is important, nothing is important. What’s the one thing in your life that deserves your attention the most?

What are you holding on to that’s holding you back? Could this be the year you finally let it go?

Have you ever been your own worst enemy? Most of us have. Avoiding that scenario begins when we first pay attention to our own red flags.

We can talk ourselves into anything. Our internal narratives justify our beliefs as well as our actions. But when those narratives aren’t true, how do we replace them?

You want what you want. But what happens when doing what you want leads precisely where you didn’t want to be?

What do we do with life’s big mysteries? How do we find peace with our unanswered questions?

We will always wonder about life’s big questions, but when it comes to faith, is there anything we can be sure of?

We all wonder. But what do you do when wondering leads to wandering far from the possibility of a personal faith?

What are you holding on to that’s holding you back? Could this be the year you finally let it go?

People with integrity do the right thing simply because they know they ought to. This “ought to” is inescapable and holds you accountable, but what is this “ought to” connected to?

Have you ever lied in an attempt to cover up something bad to present yourself as “good”? We all wrestle with the desire to look good, but does this cost us respect in the relationships that matter most?

Appetites are powerful and often determine the direction of our lives, yet they never seem to be fully satisfied and can pose a threat to our integrity. What should we do when our appetites are raging within us?

It’s possible to be a good person without doing good for another person, but how much good is it actually worth when good is simply for goodness’ sake?

Countless love stories and fairy tales focus on people finding love and living happily ever after. But how do we navigate relationships in the real world?

Dating is complicated. But does it really have to be?

When it comes to relationships, how do we make sure we’re learning from our past mistakes instead of repeating them?

We all have hopes and dreams, but what are we supposed to do when our hearts are broken and it seems like our dreams can’t come true?

“Might makes right” is the default setting for the world. Those with wealth and power write the rules, and they usually write them to favor themselves. But someone came to turn this paradigm upside down.

People who use their religion to justify the mistreatment of others are not only on the wrong side of history—they’re on the wrong side of God.

Learn the most powerful, transformational, and inspirational leadership principle on the planet. You can lead without it, but you won’t be a leader worth following unless you embrace it.

Have you ever been mean to someone simply because they were mean to you? But getting even doesn't end the cycle of hurt does it? So instead of getting even, let’s get ahead.

When we choose to repay evil with good, we write a story that is remarkable. And it’s a story that will do something good for us, even if it doesn’t change our circumstances.

We all end up somewhere in life. Why not end up somewhere on purpose?

What do you do when you realize there’s a gap between where you are in life and where you want to be?

When you realize you’ve lost your way, whom do you trust to lead you in the right direction?

Distractions. Temptations. We’ve all got ‘em. But when emotions threaten to lead us astray, how do we keep our focus on what’s most important?

Not many people would say money is the meaning of life. So how do you avoid making money your top priority?

No one wants to be mastered by anything, but the question remains: Do you have money, or does money have you?

Your money talks—whether you have a little or a lot. What would it say about you?

Have you ever been your own worst enemy? Most of us have. Avoiding that scenario begins when we first pay attention to our own red flags.

We can talk ourselves into anything. Our internal narratives justify our beliefs as well as our actions. But when those narratives aren’t true, how do we replace them?

You want what you want. But what happens when doing what you want leads precisely where you didn’t want to be?

Red or Blue. For or Against. It sometimes feels like the United States isn't very united. But unity can’t be mandated; it must be chosen… So how do we choose it in the midst of so much division?

How do you move forward when the weight of your past impacts your ability to live in the present?

When left unchecked, our emotions have the potential to control us. How do we silence the voices that fight for our attention?

There will always be someone who seems smarter, richer, or cooler. So how do you keep discontentment and comparison from stealing the life that’s right in front of you? For

Anger shows up when you’re not getting what you want. But would it lose its grip if you looked beyond the things you want—or even deserve?

Living with too much fear can cause you to become self-absorbed, distracted, and overly protective. How do you keep fear from controlling what you say and do?

Sometimes the people closest to us are the ones who see the mistakes we’re about to make. How do you speak up when there’s something worth saying?

Along the road of life, we all pick up some baggage. But how do you keep the ghosts of your past from showing up in your future?

When we look back on regretful situations, we tend to rework the narratives in our minds to justify our decisions. This natural progression of internal thinking has made the easiest person to deceive the person in the mirror. So how can we avoid making decisions that lead to regret?

Decisions lead to choices, choices lead to responses, and responses lead to permanent marks in the story of your life. What story do you want to tell?

We all experience those “red-flag moments” when something doesn’t sit quite right within us. The longer we ponder the decision we are about to make, an internal tension grows. Are you paying attention to that tension?

Our natural inclination is to live as close to the line as possible, often attempting to get away with as much as we can without facing the consequences. This is a slippery slope, so what can we ask ourselves to step away from the edge?

Our decisions can impact more than just ourselves; that is probably why we say, “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” But in a world full of deceptive voices, how can we lay a foundation for these types of mutually beneficial relationships?

Most parents want what’s best for their children, but sometimes it comes at the expense of their children. So what’s the secret to great parenting?

When it comes to repairing broken relationships, no one responds well to being convinced, coerced, convicted, or controlled. But if these approaches don’t work, how else can we fix the broken relationships in our lives?

When someone wrongs us it’s tempting to want revenge. But in order to repair a relationship, we must fight the urge to get back AT and instead be proactive in getting back TO the other person.

It’s easy to play the blame game when our relationships need fixing, but how often does it get the job done?

The decision to repair a broken relationship is extraordinarily important, and someone has to make the first move. It’s rarely convenient, but the payoff is great.

When it comes to potentially polarizing topics, our posture, tone, and approach will tell others what’s most important to us.

Disagreement is unavoidable, but division is a choice. We can disagree politically and love unconditionally.

Ingratitude stings. The tricky part is that ingratitude isn’t an active thing; rather, it is a lack of action. But unexpressed gratitude has the potential to leave devastating blows in relationships. For

The story of how the world got the Bible begins with a single event—an event so extraordinary it was worth writing about.

The backstory of the Bible gives us important context for the stories in it. In this episode, Andy explores the radical worldview introduced “in the beginning.”

The Old Testament is the gritty, epic history of the people of Israel, but even broader than that, it’s the story of God preparing the world for a Savior.

On Christmas we celebrate the birth of a king. A king who would introduce an others-first, upside down kingdom not of this world, but certainly for this world.

In this episode, Andy shares the Christmas story and the potential for making it personal.

When everything is important, nothing is important. What’s the one thing in your life that deserves your attention the most?

Whether fueled by fear, insecurity, or a past event, many of us construct excuses that box us in and hold us back. But there is a way to move beyond the limits our excuses bind us to.

Our reasons are usually just excuses in disguise. Over time, these excuses begin telling us what we can and can’t do, and ultimately, they cause us to miss out on something great. For

Excuses are just lies we tell ourselves about ourselves. But if we never admit the truth, we’ll excuse our lives away.

Five steps to punching through your paper walls.

Have you ever been mean to someone simply because they were mean to you? But getting even doesn't end the cycle of hurt, does it? So instead of getting even, let’s get ahead.

When we choose to repay evil with good, we write a story that is remarkable. And it’s a story that will do something good for us, even if it doesn’t change our circumstances.

People with integrity do the right thing simply because they know they ought to. This “ought to” is inescapable and holds you accountable, but what is this “ought to” connected to?

Have you ever lied in an attempt to cover up something bad to present yourself as “good”? We all wrestle with the desire to look good, but does this cost us respect in the relationships that matter most?

Appetites are powerful and often determine the direction of our lives, yet they never seem to be fully satisfied and can pose a threat to our integrity. What should we do when our appetites are raging within us?

It’s possible to be a good person without doing good for another person, but how much good is it actually worth when good is simply for goodness’ sake?

Author Andy Stanley helps viewers make better decision and live with fewer regrets.

Author Andy Stanley helps viewers make better decision and live with fewer regrets.

Have you ever hoped for something, but no matter how hard you thought about it, wished for it, or admired the potential outcome of it, nothing happened? What if there is an explanation for that... and what if there was a way to get what you hoped for?

You never know what hangs in the balance of an invitation. We’ve been invited to something amazing, and how we respond to that invitation could be life changing.

There are people who will go out of their way to help someone and expect nothing in return. We like those people and we want to be like them; Jesus extends an invitation that shows us how to be those people.

It’s easy to look at someone and write them off as bad or wrong simply because they are different. But when we do this, we actually put something on ourselves that doesn’t look good on anybody.

We have an invitation to follow someone who will make our lives significantly better—it may not be easier, but it will absolutely be better.

Have you ever been your own worst enemy? Most of us have. Avoiding that scenario begins when we first pay attention to our own red flags.

We can talk ourselves into anything. Our internal narratives justify our beliefs as well as our actions. But when those narratives aren’t true, how do we replace them?

You want what you want. But what happens when doing what you want leads precisely where you didn’t want to be?

The story of how the world got the Bible begins with a single event—an event so extraordinary it was worth writing about.

The backstory of the Bible gives us important context for the stories in it. In this episode, Andy explores the radical worldview introduced “in the beginning.”

The Old Testament is the gritty, epic history of the people of Israel, but even broader than that, it’s the story of God preparing the world for a Savior.

The Bible did not create Christianity. Consequently, peace with God is possible even when you can’t find peace with everything in the Bible.

Red or Blue. For or Against. It sometimes feels like the United States isn't very united. But unity can’t be mandated; it must be chosen... So how do we choose it in the midst of so much division?

A great relationship doesn’t happen by accident. Happy couples know that the secret lies in addressing the hopes, dreams, and desires of both people.

As long as you think your partner owes you something, your marriage will be all about keeping score. How do you prevent your relationship from devolving into transactions and negotiations?

Want to know the secret to a happy relationship? It’s a choice happy couples don't always know they're making, but it makes all the difference.

Not many people would say money is the meaning of life. So how do you avoid making money your top priority?

Author Andy Stanley helps viewers make better decision and live with fewer regrets.

Your money talks—whether you have a little or a lot. What would it say about you?

Most Americans believe in some sort of heaven, and most believe that good people go there. Sounds nice... but how good is good enough to get us in?

If we use “good” as our standard of behavior to get into heaven, we will all fall short. But that bad news is what makes the good news of Jesus so good.

Rules don’t get us into heaven, so why do we have them?

When it comes to repairing broken relationships, no one responds well to being convinced, coerced, convicted, or controlled. But if these approaches don’t work, how else can we fix the broken relationships in our lives?

When someone wrongs us it’s tempting to want revenge. But in order to repair a relationship, we must fight the urge to get back AT and instead be proactive in getting back TO the other person.

It’s easy to play the blame game when our relationships need fixing, but how often does it get the job done?

The decision to repair a broken relationship is extraordinarily important, and someone has to make the first move. It’s rarely convenient, but the payoff is great.

Most parents want what’s best for their children, but sometimes it comes at the expense of their children. So what’s the secret to great parenting?

For better or worse, your decisions go beyond you and impact those closest to you. Want to be a person who impacts others for the better? Here are some tips guaranteed to leave you saying, “I’m so glad I did.”

Nobody likes to be told what to do, but what if the advice we don’t want to hear is exactly what we need to move us toward our greatest success or away from our greatest regret?

Even though it’s never easy, releasing someone from the debt they owe you is the only way to freedom. Special guest April Farmer shares how her journey with forgiveness led to a richer life.

Looking for a relationship that will last? Try this trick for relationships that can withstand just about any of life’s trials.

Did you know you can be generous without actually living generously? Find out how to be someone who goes beyond the simple act of sporadic giving.

Ever lie to yourself to feel good about yourself? The truth is, lying to ourselves only keeps us from doing what’s good for us.

The new year is all about making ourselves better people. In this episode, Andy suggests becoming a better person by doing something to make the world a better place.

For many men, success means autonomy—the freedom to do what you want when you want. But what if that’s not as good as it seems?

If you want to become a better person, do something this year to make the world a better place. In this episode, Andy discusses how to determine what that something should be.

Newer and shinier can seem better, but what do you do when you're no longer content with what you wear, what you drive, or where you live?

Making the world a better place means giving up time, money, or opportunities. But what if that's the only way to live a life of purpose and meaning?

We’ve all heard the saying “actions speak louder than words.” But did you know that even our actions rarely tell the whole story? It’s our reactions that do... so what do your reactions say about you?

Something we all have in common is making messes of our lives at one time or another. In this episode, Andy reveals the silver lining of this fact.

Our actions speak louder than words, but our reactions speak louder than both. They reveal what’s really going on under the surface and reflect our fears, values, and even our faith.

In this episode, Andy explains how the messes we make of our lives can bring us closer to God.

Our reactions speak loudly, so loud that people take notice. Which means our reactions are an opportunity for influence, and Jesus shows us how to use that influence for good.

It's a misconception that Christianity is about staying out of trouble. In this episode, Andy discusses the flaw in this belief.

Let’s face it: some people can rub us the wrong way. But would we see them differently if we first took a look at ourselves?

The messes in our lives are rarely solved with quick, simple fixes. In this episode, Andy introduces a better approach.

What are you holding on to that’s holding you back? Could this be the year you finally let it go?

We all have limited resources. In this episode, Andy explains that how we see the world affects how we use our money.

Have you ever thought “how could someone do that and live with themselves?” Truth is you could do the unthinkable and live with yourself, people do it all the time. Want to ensure it doesn’t happen to you? We’ve got you covered.

How does God view time? In this episode, Andy argues that if we saw time how God does, it might affect the way we use our own.

By the time we reach adulthood, we’re all pretty good at monitoring our behavior to get what we want now, but what if there’s something more important that we need to monitor to ensure we get what we ultimately want?

We all dream of a trouble-free life made possible by something. In this episode, Andy asks the question of what really makes people happy.

I bet you’ve seen somebody do something and thought “If I did that, I couldn’t live with myself.” But the truth is, you could do the unthinkable and live with yourself... people do it all the time. But there are a few things you can do to ensure this doesn’t happen to you.

Sometimes it seems that happiness and holiness are mutually exclusive. In this episode, Andy explains why the opposite is true.

Our friends influence the direction of our lives. So what do we do when they’re leading us somewhere we don’t want to end up?

If your goal is happiness, no amount of money alone will ever be enough. In this episode, Andy explains how the way you view money can actually help you find peace.

In romantic relationships, we all want to avoid unnecessary heartbreak. So how do we protect our most important relationships when we find ourselves veering into dangerous territory?

Do you have money or does money have you?

If we look close enough, we see that the emotions inside of us have the potential to hurt those around us. So how do we minimize the negative effects of guilt, anger, greed, and jealousy?

Most Americans believe in some sort of heaven, and most believe that good people go there. Sounds nice... but how good is good enough to get us in?

When we choose to repay evil with good, we write a story that is remarkable. And it’s a story that will do something good for us, even if it doesn’t change our circumstances.

Most Americans believe in some sort of heaven, and most believe that good people go there. Sounds nice... but how good is good enough to get us in?

If we use “good” as our standard of behavior to get into heaven, we will all fall short. But that bad news is what makes the good news of Jesus so good.

Rules don’t get us into heaven, so why do we have them?

Forgiving someone before being asked is risky and feels incredibly vulnerable. Is the risk even worth it? We think so—watch to find out why.

In today’s fast-paced world we strive to succeed, win, be the best, always be first... but what would it look like if we chose to lose instead? Seems absurd, but losing could actually be the key to gaining far more than you could imagine.

Ever find yourself scrambling to maintain your status or influence? What if there was a better way to experience power and transformation in your life?

Oftentimes we are told to fight temptation because we are tempted by things that won’t be good for us: another piece of cake, that late-night text. But there is one temptation we should lean into, and when we do, the world changes for the better.

Tired of comparing—and wanting what everyone else has? Let’s flip that narrative upside down and discover the one thing you can do to experience freedom and peace in the life you currently have.

When it comes to repairing broken relationships, no one responds well to being convinced, coerced, convicted, or controlled. But if these approaches don’t work, how else can we fix the broken relationships in our lives?

It’s easy to play the blame game when our relationships need fixing, but how often does it get the job done?

The decision to repair a broken relationship is extraordinarily important, and someone has to make the first move. It’s rarely convenient, but the payoff is great.

Did you know you are not expected to believe Jesus is who he said he is based solely on a collection of ancient manuscripts? The foundation of our faith is anchored to something far more substantial and sustainable.

Have you ever hoped for something, but no matter how hard you thought about it, wished for it, or admired the potential outcome of it, nothing happened? What if there is an explanation for that... and what if there was a way to get what you hoped for?

You never know what hangs in the balance of an invitation. We’ve been invited to something amazing, and how we respond to that invitation could be life changing.

There are people who will go out of their way to help someone and expect nothing in return. We like those people and we want to be like them; Jesus extends an invitation that shows us how to be those people.

It’s easy to look at someone and write them off as bad or wrong simply because they are different. But when we do this, we actually put something on ourselves that doesn’t look good on anybody.

We have an invitation to follow someone who will make our lives significantly better—it may not be easier, but it will absolutely be better.

Author Andy Stanley helps viewers make better decision and live with fewer regrets.

Our reasons are usually just excuses in disguise. Over time, these excuses begin telling us what we can and can’t do, and ultimately, they cause us to miss out on something great.

Excuses are just lies we tell ourselves about ourselves. But if we never admit the truth, we’ll excuse our lives away.

Five steps to punching through your paper walls.

Circumstances are not an indicator of God's absence.

No matter where we are in life, we should fix our eyes on a person not a situation.

Doubt is a natural part in the journey of our faith.

People with integrity do the right thing simply because they know they ought to. This “ought to” is inescapable and holds you accountable, but what is this “ought to” connected to?

Have you ever lied in an attempt to cover up something bad to present yourself as “good”? We all wrestle with the desire to look good, but does this cost us respect in the relationships that matter most?

Appetites are powerful and often determine the direction of our lives, yet they never seem to be fully satisfied and can pose a threat to our integrity. What should we do when our appetites are raging within us?

It’s possible to be a good person without doing good for another person, but how much good is it actually worth when good is simply for goodness’ sake?

The words we’ve heard have shaped us and the words we speak have the power to shape others. And some words weigh more than others, so weigh your words carefully.

Words have weight, but unfortunately they are not weighted equally. Who you are and who you represent influences the gravity of your words.

There is no correlation between intent and outcome. What does this have to do with words? A lot...because even when our word are accidental, they can still hurt someone.

When it comes to potentially polarizing topics, our posture, tone, and approach will tell others what’s most important to us.

Disagreement is unavoidable, but division is a choice. We can disagree politically and love unconditionally.

For better or worse, your decisions go beyond you and impact those closest to you. Want to be a person who impacts others for the better? Here are some tips guaranteed to leave you saying, “I’m so glad I did.”

Nobody likes to be told what to do, but what if the advice we don’t want to hear is exactly what we need to move us toward our greatest success or away from our greatest regret?

Even though it’s never easy, releasing someone from the debt they owe you it is the only way to freedom. Special guest April Farmer shares how her journey with forgiveness led to a richer life.

Author Andy Stanley helps viewers make better decision and live with fewer regrets.

Did you know you can be generous without actually living generously? Find out how to be someone who goes beyond the simple act of sporadic giving.

Ever lie to yourself to feel good about yourself? The truth is, lying to ourselves only keeps us from doing what’s good for us.

You may have heard that Jesus is the reason for the Christmas season, and that's true but so are you! On the very first Christmas God blessed the world with a different kind of king who came to save us by entering into our mess.

Have you ever wondered “What is God like?”, “What does God like?”, or maybe... “Who does God like?” Believe it or not the birth of Jesus addresses all three.

Much like some of us experience today, the very first Christmas was complicated. And that first complicated Christmas paved the way for us to navigate what can be the most complicated time of the year.

In the season of self-reflection and self-improvement, discover the question that can unlock a life of purpose and fulfillment that transcends the endless pursuit of self-improvement.

It’s that time of year—setting goals, breaking bad habits, and maybe even breaking up with that person. But what if there’s a better question to ask—one that could actually change your life?

Ever feel like life’s a juggling act of stuff—more things, more time, more goals—but somehow it still feels... empty? When we become so focused on more we are actually robbed of what really matters.

The decision to repair a broken relationship is extraordinarily important, and someone has to make the first move. It’s rarely convenient, but the payoff is great.

Most of us love a good competition. But what happens when we bring competition into our relationships? The truth is, nobody really wins. But here’s the good news: there’s one game you can bring into your relationships that has the power to change everything—for the better.

There is no correlation between intent and outcome. What does this have to do with words? A lot...because even when our word are accidental, they can still hurt someone.

In today’s fast-paced world we strive to succeed, win, be the best, always be first… but what would it look like if we chose to lose instead? Seems absurd, but losing could actually be the key to gaining far more than you could imagine.

Tired of comparing—and wanting what everyone else has? Let’s flip that narrative upside down and discover the one thing you can do to experience freedom and peace in the life you currently have.

Even though he predicted it multiple times, eyewitnesses were shocked to learn God had raised Jesus from the dead. And what God did for Jesus, he can do for you.

Have you ever hoped for—or even asked for—a miracle? But what exactly defines a miracle? And how do miracles fit into the Christian faith?

A miracle is a divine intervention into the regular course of the world that would not (or could not) have occurred otherwise. But the question is: how do we get one?

Author Andy Stanley helps viewers make better decision and live with fewer regrets.

While we can't predict when miracles happen, there is a posture we can take that might just position you for the unexpected.

The road of life can be complicated, but follow these five simple rules and you’ll arrive at your desired destination—on purpose.

Nobody likes to be told what to do, but what if the advice we don’t want to hear is exactly what we need to move us toward our greatest success or away from our greatest regret?

Even though it’s never easy, releasing someone from the debt they owe you it is the only way to freedom. Special guest April Farmer shares how her journey with forgiveness led to a richer life.

Ever lie to yourself to feel good about yourself? The truth is, lying to ourselves only keeps us from doing what's good for us.

Life is full of complicated twists and turns. But circumstances, whether good or bad, do not dictate the presence of a God who loves you. Here's why...

When times get turbulent, where do you turn? In an ever changing world it's essential to find somewhere consistent to go, and not just somewhere, but towards someone.

A growing number of people are walking away from faith - not because of Jesus, but because of how we've talked about faith. Bit the first-century followers didn't anchor their faith to a book. They anchored it to an event - an event so extraordinary, it changed the world. Maybe it's time we rediscover a version of faith that's undeniable...and ultimately, irresistable.

We're in the middle of a culutral shift - maybe you've felt it too. Spirituality is trending. But for many, it's a build-your-own, do-what-works-for-you kind of spirituality. And while that might sound freeing, what if it's missing something vital?

Ever wonder why you keep doing the very thing you promised yourself you'd never do again? You're not alone. We all wrestle with the tension between who we want to be nd who we actually are. The good news? There's a way to close the gap, find out how.

Whether fueled by fear, insecurity, or a past event, many of us construct excuses that box us in and hold us back. But there is a way to move beyond the limits our excuses bind us to.

Our reasons are usually just excuses in disguise. Over time, these excuses begin telling us what we can and can’t do, and ultimately, they cause us to miss out on something great.

Excuses are just lies we tell ourselves about ourselves. But if we never admit the truth, we’ll excuse our lives away.

Five steps to punching through your paper walls.

What if being a superhero didn't mean flying or super strength—but simply taking responsibility? Discover why responsibility is the key to a healthier life, stronger relationships, and a better world.

We’ve all had to clean up someone else’s mess. But what happens when we’re the ones who’ve left a mess behind? True freedom comes when we take ownership of our past, and God’s grace can empower us to move forward into something greater.

Your future is coming, whether you’re ready or not. Refusing to plan for it means planning to become a burden to someone else. But there’s a better way forward.

What's inside of us always impacts the people around us. And taking responsibility for our inner life naturally improves what's on the outside too.

It’s easy to look at someone and write them off as bad or wrong simply because they are different. But when we do this, we actually put something on ourselves that doesn’t look good on anybody.

Have you ever looked up and realized you’ve been heading in the wrong direction? We often lose our way long before we know it—because what seems right at first isn’t always the right way. But the good news of Christmas is this: God didn’t just point the way, he became the way so we could find our way to the path that leads to peace and purpose.

Jesus didn’t come to exclude people, he came to invite everyone in. And following Jesus isn’t just about believing something; it’s about living a specific way with God and with others. Discover how taking the first step toward peace with others is often the first step back toward peace with God.

The first Christmas was unimaginable—and it changed everything. Imagine a world where Christians live and love today the way Jesus did back then. The way Jesus lived changed the world once and could change it again.

You were created on purpose and for a purpose. Yet it's easy to settle for a life centered on ourselves instead of the calling God placed within us. Rediscover the joy, meaning and fulfillment that come when we step beyond ourselves and live the life we were made to live.

Author Andy Stanley helps viewers make better decision and live with fewer regrets.

What if the story of Jesus is bigger than a future destination? Discover how seeing Jesus as a present King reshapes faith into good news for everyone.

“Christ” wasn’t originally a last name, it was a royal title. Seeing Jesus as King reframes the Gospel as more than personal salvation and invites us into a new way of living under His reign.

Many people think faith is about winning battles against others. But the real fight of faith is inward—shaping our character and transforming us to look more like Jesus in the way we live and love.

God’s kingdom doesn’t advance through power or force. Over time, it grows through ordinary people whose lives are changed from the inside out and who choose to participate in its quiet expansion.

Easter is more than a tradition, it’s a turning point in history. Explore why the resurrection of Jesus launched a movement and why it still has life-changing implications today.

A growing number of people are walking away from faith—not because of Jesus, but because of how we've talked about faith. But the first-century followers didn’t anchor their faith to a book. They anchored it to an event—an event so extraordinary, it changed the world. Maybe it's time we rediscover a version of faith that’s undeniable... and ultimately, irresistible.

We’re in the middle of a cultural shift—maybe you’ve felt it too. Spirituality is trending. But for many, it’s a build-your-own, do-what-works-for-you kind of spirituality. And while that might sound freeing, what if it’s missing something vital?